Above the bridge

Ever wondered what it was like to be a club celebrity during the MySpace era? Join us as we catch up with Nikki Sotelo, a true icon of Hawaii's vibrant club scene. Nikki takes us back to those unforgettable nights, sharing stories of club nights  and the magnetic energy that surrounded her and her friends. Her influence is still felt today, with heartwarming anecdotes from fans who remember her status as a club celebrity. Together, we reminisce about the electric atmosphere of past parties and the evolution of nightlife culture.Our conversation takes a turn as we explore how clubbing has transformed with the rise of social media and dating apps. The dance floors of yesteryear offered a balance of dancing and drinking—a stark contrast to today's digital interactions. We reflect on how this shift affects the younger generation, who now navigate a world where real-life adventures have been swapped for virtual connections. The topic of modern parenting arises, highlighting protective instincts and the challenge of fostering physical social experiences for children in an increasingly digital age.As our discussion unfolds, we delve into the dynamics of parenthood within the club culture. Nikki shares personal insights into parenting challenges and the balancing act between social life and family responsibilities. We touch on how becoming a parent can reshape one's identity, bringing unexpected joy and fulfillment. Insights into building genuine friendships in the nightlife industry are shared, along with stories of support and resilience. We wrap up with the joys of family gatherings and the importance of maintaining meaningful connections, both in and out of the club scene.

We are celebrating four fantastic years of Above the Bridge podcast.  This anniversary episode is a journey through the nerve-wracking yet exhilarating experiences that have defined us, from personal bouts and parental pride to hilarious reflections on cleaning rice and the unpredictable art of DJing. These stories, punctuated with laughter and lessons, serve as a reminder of the bittersweet passage of time and the joy found in life's unpredictable rhythms.We reflect on personal growth and gratitude. We emphasize the importance of overcoming fears, embracing personal fulfillment, and cherishing relationships. As we look back on these four years, we're filled with gratitude for the support and community we've built together. It's been a transformative ride, and we invite you to continue this remarkable journey with us as part of our podcast family, where each episode brings new insights, stories, laughter, inspiration and Aloha !

Casey 808, the innovative rapper from Hilo, joins us to share the captivating story behind his distinctive "island urban" sound. His music is a vibrant tapestry woven from reggae, dancehall, hip hop, and R&B influences, drawing inspiration from icons like Bob Marley and Tupac. Casey reveals how he's been able to carve out a unique niche that strikes a chord with fans who crave the fusion of island vibes and urban beats. By experimenting with new sounds, he's breaking genre boundaries and redefining what it means to create music that resonates across diverse audiences.Throughout our conversation, Casey reflects on the impact of technological advancements on his musical journey, from the early days of tapes to today's digital platforms. His passion for music was sparked at a tender age by freestyling friends and a DJ neighbor, setting him on a path of continuous growth and collaboration. Casey shares the importance of balancing originality with collaboration, discussing enriching partnerships with producers like Kanan and artists like J Boog and Baby Bash. These collaborations not only foster creative growth but also highlight the pivotal role of networking in the music industry.We also dive into the global influence of Hawaii's music scene and the integral role of social media in amplifying local talent to a worldwide audience. Casey sheds light on the challenges faced by independent artists versus those signed to labels, emphasizing the importance of hard work and strategic choices. The episode culminates with a discussion on the rewarding experience of mentoring young Hawaiian talent and establishing a new music label that prioritizes fair partnerships. This episode encapsulates the vibrant, evolving landscape of music and the significance of forging genuine connections both in music and business.

Join us as we chat with Chris Lomboy, the spirited host of "The Relationship Method" podcast. Chris takes us through his serendipitous plunge into podcasting, starting from his initial stint as a hesitant co-host on "More Than a Uniform" to launching his own show that champions personal growth and relationships. His journey is a testament to the power of overcoming self-doubt, leaning on the encouragement of friends and family, and embracing the support of an ever-growing listener base.In our converstaion , Chris and I unravel the art of podcasting, from creating an engaging atmosphere with guests to navigating the cultural nuances of Hawaiian life after a move from California. We delve into the hilarious and heartfelt stories that come from asking personal questions while respecting boundaries to keep our guests comfortable. We also share some of the craziest moments and memorable learning experiences that come with fitting into a new community and understanding local dialects.We wrap up with a deep dive into modern parenting, discussing everything from generational discipline differences to the challenges posed by social media. Hear about Chris’s humorous adventures as a single dad and the unique ways he’s handled sensitive topics with his daughters. We also reminisce about favorite childhood cartoons and quirky pet peeves, adding a dash of nostalgia and laughter to our conversation. This episode is a rollercoaster of emotions, insights, and fun that you won't want to miss!

Discover the secrets to strong relationships and entrepreneurial success with our special guests, Cherise & Ranson Ho. Celebrating 16 years together and nine years of marriage, they reveal the keys to sustaining love and partnership while managing a thriving business. We reminisce about their journey from memorable nights out to momentous life events, including the heartwarming story of their engagement.Get ready for an inspiring deep dive into the world of Risi Resins, where creativity meets strategic planning. Cherise & Ranson share how they built their crafting business from the ground up, discussing the vital role of having the right equipment and leveraging each other's strengths. From overcoming hurdles to mastering sublimation printing, their journey is a testament to the power of perseverance and teamwork. Listen as they unpack the importance of networking at craft fairs and the unique challenges and rewards of running a family-operated venture.Join us as we explore the vibrant world of craft fairs with Cherise & Ranson, highlighting their experiences at the Made in Hawaii craft fair and their ambitions to expand beyond the islands. Learn about the logistical challenges of participating in large events, the joys of supporting local artisans, and the emotional rewards of connecting with the community. With an eye on future growth, they discuss potential markets on the mainland and other Hawaiian islands, sharing their dreams and strategies for taking Risi Resins to new heights. Tune in for an episode filled with passion, creativity, and invaluable insights for any aspiring entrepreneur.

Ever wondered how a local boy from Waianae, West Side, Hawaii transformed into a social media sensation? Join us in this electrifying episode featuring Ray Maraj, as he opens up about his journey from working at the Waianae Boys and Girls Club to captivating audiences on TikTok and Instagram. Ray shares his inspiring story of navigating the pandemic's challenges, which pushed him to engage with kids virtually and eventually led to his viral success. He sheds light on how he balanced multiple jobs, returned to school, and now, in 2024, is fully committed to his social media journey once again.We dive deep into the life of Ray Maraj, discussing everything from the quirks of local celebrity status in a small Hawaiian community to the nostalgia of childhood antics like chasing the Manapua man and slipper throwing. Ray candidly talks about the dichotomy of being an extroverted introvert and how alcohol can sometimes bring out one's true self. His reflections on the impact of social media on personal interactions and the unique experience of being recognized in his hometown offer a fascinating glimpse into the life of a local influencer.This episode also unpacks the nuts and bolts of growing a following on TikTok and Instagram, with Ray sharing valuable insights on finding a niche, using hashtags effectively, and the unpredictability of viral content. As we wrap up, Ray addresses pressing issues like community violence and the need for genuine leadership, adding a heartfelt layer to an already captivating discussion. Don't miss out on this vibrant conversation filled with personal stories, practical advice, and thoughtful reflections.

Ever wondered how anime and cosplay could reshape an entire community? Join us for an exhilarating episode where we sit down with Alli O., a night industry manager and passionate cosplayer, who reveals the transformative impact of anime culture in Hawaii. Ali opens up about her unique journey, balancing the vibrant nightlife scene with her love for cosplay, and how platforms like TikTok and IG have been instrumental in this cultural phenomenon. Hear firsthand about the magnetic pull of characters like Luffy from "One Piece" and the unexpected ways they've influenced fans around the globe.Get ready to rediscover the magic of classic anime series such as Fruits Basket, Naruto, Jujutsu Kaisen, and Inuyasha. Ali and I share the joys and hurdles of DIY costume creation and the heartwarming inclusivity found at anime conventions. Whether you're an introvert or extrovert, the sense of belonging and newfound confidence that comes from participating in these events is truly inspiring. We also dive deep into how nerd culture has become more visible and accepted, with personal anecdotes that underscore the universal appeal of anime and manga.Alli brings her expertise in content creation to the table, offering insights into the stark contrasts between TikTok and Instagram. From TikTok's user-friendly randomness to Instagram's curated perfection, we break down the pros and cons of each platform. Explore the addictive nature of Pokémon Go, the art of anime tattoos, and the camaraderie found in local bar scenes and softball teams. Alli also talks about her aspirations in the cosplay world and the importance of visibility and collaboration within the anime community. Don't miss our lively discussion packed with revealing stories and valuable takeaways!

What happens when you combine the aloha spirit with a fierce determination to uplift the houseless community in Hawaii? Join us as we sit down with Jesse Jones from To The Top Hawaii, a non-profit committed to ending houselessness and nurturing strong community bonds. Jesse shares his real-life experiences, from the gritty work of distributing leftover food to helping individuals acquire crucial identification documents. We get an inside look why personal engagement is crucial for making a difference.Ever wondered how local initiatives like night markets can prevent houselessness by keeping the local economy thriving? We explore this fascinating topic with Jesse, delving into the delicate balance between community projects and personal endeavors. Learn about the incredible role of mentors, teamwork, and logistics in making events such as night markets a success. We also address the changing nature of the aloha spirit among Hawaii's youth and the need for reinforcing positive values and examples.In our heartfelt conversation, you'll hear stories of hope and resilience, emphasizing the power of small acts of kindness and the value of community support. From the importance of empowering youth to the challenges faced by families trying to secure housing, Jesse and I discuss it all. Plus, we talk about the emotional toll of community work and the significance of self-care to maintain a positive outlook amidst challenges. This episode is a testament to the power of collective effort, personal engagement, and the enduring spirit of aloha.

What if you could transform from a street fighter to a high-level MMA competitor? Join us as we welcome Brandon Pieper, a former professional MMA fighter, who takes us through his remarkable journey from his first pro fight in 2005 to signing with Bellator. Brandon opens up about his career milestones, the challenges of balancing family life with a fighting career, and the sacrifices he made along the way. Now retired, Brandon is fully immersed in coaching boxing and running his construction business, B&B Services, while continuing to inspire the MMA community.We explore the evolution of MMA training and promotions in Hawaii, reminiscing about the early days at Hard Knocks in Waianae and the journey through various gyms. Brandon shares insights into the advancements in training techniques, dieting, and weight-cutting that have transformed modern fighters into scientifically prepared and healthier athletes. We also touch on the business aspect of MMA, where strategic matchmaking plays a crucial role in building impressive fighter records. Discover the rise of boxing's popularity, driven by social media influencers like Logan and Jake Paul, and the impact they've had on the sport.Get an inside look at HR Boxing Gym, where respect and equality create a strong sense of family and community. Brandon reflects on the challenges and rewards of coaching his own son, Braxton, and the unique dynamics of coaching youth versus adults. The episode wraps up with a heartfelt discussion about parenting and coaching in combat sports, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and leading by example. Join us for an episode filled with personal anecdotes, valuable insights, and the passion required to succeed in the demanding world of combat sports.

Join me, Thaddeus, on the Above the Bridge Podcast as I sit down with my cousin and Hawaii State Taekwondo legend, Lyle Baldonado, to uncover the transformation of this martial art from the full-contact, knockout-driven matches of our youth to the sensor-based, point-scoring competitions of today. We delve into our shared experiences, from living together in Kaneohe to the intense training sessions and competitions that tested our mental and physical capabilities.Our journey through the evolution of Taekwondo highlights the stark contrast between the gritty, damage-focused practice of our past and the modern, touch-oriented approach. Lyle and I reflect on the drastic changes in protective gear and scoring systems, recounting personal anecdotes of how we managed weight and forged unbreakable bonds with fellow athletes. The episode is filled with tales of camaraderie, from the strategic battles fought at the US Open to the unforgettable rivalries that shaped our competitive spirits.Celebrating the indomitable spirit of teamates, whose perseverance continues to inspire, we share stories of resilience and growth from our martial arts journey. Whether it's fighting in Vegas or traveling to Oakland  for nationals, the memories of camaraderie and brotherhood remain vivid. This heartfelt episode is a tribute to the power of martial arts in shaping our lives, the mentors who guided us, and the unforgettable moments that continue to bond us together.

Join us for an engaging conversation with Rylan Redona, the inspiring force behind Manawai Boxing. Discover how his journey from an amateur boxer to a dedicated gym owner is a testament to the power of passion and perseverance. Rylan candidly shares his early days training with notable figures like Uncle Derek and competing in amateur events, all while balancing fatherhood and higher education. His story is a compelling blend of personal sacrifice and unwavering determination to create a space for community growth and mentorship.Rylan delves into the crucial elements of mental toughness, explaining how the sport demands an unyielding mindset and the ability to stay calm under pressure. As we explore the transformation of his garage into a fully equipped gym, Rylan emphasizes the importance of mastering fundamentals and the broader role of a coach as a mentor. Learn about the structured classes and free training sessions he offers to local kids, fostering a tight-knit, family-oriented environment that encourages young athletes to compete and thrive.Rounding out our conversation, we dive into the impact of social media on boxing culture and how Rylan navigates the online world. From overcoming negativity to building an authentic online presence, he provides valuable insights into maintaining a positive mindset amidst criticism. Hear about his future goals, including taking his son and other students to national competitions, and his aspiration to continue making a positive influence in the community. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of resilience, mentorship, and the transformative power of boxing.

Join us for an unforgettable episode as Becky Mits, our cherished friend and renowned radio personality, returns to reminisce about our good times—from barbecues and clubbing at District to Disney moments. It's a blend of heartfelt memories, and uproarious laughter as we navigate through shared experiences that have profoundly shaped us.We share personal stories, tackling confusing signals, exit strategies, and the balancing act of confidence and genuine interest. Plus, you'll get a peek into the wild journey of planning a surprise engagement party that turned into an unforgettable night.From the excitement of hosting solo morning shows and Hollywood gossip to the magic of Disney adventures, this episode is a roller coaster of emotions and insights. We dive into the joys and challenges of personal growth and self-confidence, with Becky sharing her unique perspectives. Enjoy tales of Disneyland versus Disney World, the intricacies of musical beefs, and the supportive power of friendship. Whether you're here for the heartwarming stories, the laughs, or the life lessons, this episode has it all.

You’ve got a dream, but what does it take to turn it into reality? Join me, as I recount the journey from a mere idea to creating the Above the Bridge podcast, inspired by the unforgettable push from my friend Dj Hapaboy. Discover the significance behind choosing a flexible, meaningful name and the intricacies of establishing the podcast as an LLC. Listen to the heartwarming story of a childhood memory that shaped the podcast's essence—where genuine, unscripted conversations reign supreme.Get an insider’s look at the technical steps and invaluable resources that paved the way for the podcast's success. With advice from friends and the discovery of Buzzsprout for seamless distribution, learn how incorporating video elements and launching a YouTube channel brought the vision to life. Reflect on the triumph of releasing the first episode and the overwhelming joy of seeing it go live. This episode is a heartfelt thank you to those who supported me and an open invitation for aspiring podcasters to reach out for guidance. Join us Above the Bridge, where dreams meet reality.

Master the art of coaching and club management with insights from the club director and coach of Strive High Athletics. Discover the inclusive and thoughtful branding that attracts players from all over Hawaii, and hear about our guest's personal volleyball journey from her competitive years with Jammers Volleyball Club, Kamehameha HS, & Pepperdine . Learn how influential mentors like Coach Deb shaped her development and how early competitive experiences transitioned her to higher levels of play.Get an inside look at the intricacies of starting and growing a volleyball club from scratch, featuring a narrative rich with personal anecdotes and coaching philosophies. Learn from our guest's first head coaching role at 22, the mentorship under Donovan Martinez, and how a partnership with her husband, Coach Elias, brings a balance of intensity and calmness to their coaching style. Understand the family-centric culture they’ve built at Strive High Athletics and the strategic choices behind team colors and the club’s name, reflecting their commitment to fostering young athletes' development.Understand the critical elements of effective coaching and the importance of commitment and integrity in nurturing young volleyball players. Hear Aria's inspiring transformation from a novice to a dedicated player, showcasing the blend of innovative coaching and old-school discipline. Explore the challenges of running a competitive club in Hawaii, the significant role of parents, and the vision for Strive High Athletics' future, including expanding into other sports and acquiring a dedicated gym space. Stay connected with updates and future episodes through our social media handles and website, and be part of this incredible journey of developing not just skilled athletes, but well-rounded individuals.

ATBpod.com is back from vacation.  This week we are getting back into the swing of things with a Q & A with host Thaddeus.

Can you imagine transforming from a farm girl on the Big Island to a beauty queen with a vision? Join us as we explore the remarkable journey of Leimakamae Freitas, a trailblazer in the pageant world and a true embodiment of resilience and empowerment. Listen to her heartfelt stories about balancing high school life with the pageant world, battling societal pressures, and achieving unprecedented titles like Miss Hawaii Island Teen USA and Miss Hawaii Island USA. Lei opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of competing on the national stage and the personal growth that comes with every challenge.Lei's story is not just about crowns and sashes; it's about the power of mentorship and the birth of Regal Academy. We dive into how she turned a simple fundraiser into a thriving modeling and pageantry school that nurtures young talent across Hawaii's major islands. Discover the inclusive, supportive environment she has built, and how her academy collaborates with top designers and communities to create opportunities for aspiring beauty queens and confident individuals. Lei's vision extends beyond pageantry, aiming to foster self-confidence and ambition in every girl who steps through her academy's doors.But the journey doesn't stop there. Hear about the unwavering support from her father during her most challenging times, the sisterhood that has uplifted her, and her future aspirations within the Miss Hawaii USA organization. Lei's passion for singing, cultural diversity, and community empowerment shines through every anecdote, offering inspiration and practical advice for anyone looking to pursue their dreams. This episode is a testament to the strength of perseverance, the importance of a solid support system, and the impact of setting ambitious goals. Tune in for an engaging conversation that promises to leave you motivated and ready to conquer your own challenges.

When grief strikes, it can either paralyze us or propel us into action; for Chad Starr, it became a catalyst for a profound mission. Walking through the pain—quite literally—he embarked on an audacious trek around Hawaii's perimeter, transforming his profound loss into a platform for mental health advocacy after his daughter Sienna's tragic passing. As Chad's story unfurls, we grapple with the complexities of modern parenting, from navigating our children's digital worlds to confronting the omnipresent specter of bullying. His resilience illustrates the depths of a parent's love and the relentless pursuit of creating a safer space for our youth.Our heartfelt conversation traverses the rugged terrain of endurance, both physical and emotional. Chad's fractured tibias become a metaphor for the brokenness one can feel in the aftermath of loss, yet they also symbolize the unimaginable strength it takes to continue forward. This episode is as much about mending the fractures within as it is about the external journey, examining how our own upbringing informs our parenting style and the crucial role of vulnerability in building connections. We're reminded that true strength often lies in sharing our weaknesses, and that by doing so, we pave the way for others to do the same.Amidst the tears and laughter, Chad's tale is ultimately one of hope, underscored by a dedication to mental health advocacy and support. By candidly discussing the staggering impact of social media and the deceptive allure of so-called perfect lives, we shine a light on the importance of authenticity and the small victories that can make all the difference. As the episode draws to a close, we are left with a resonating message of love, the power of helping others, and a promise to honor Sienna's legacy with actions that spread the aloha spirit far and wide. Join us as we pay tribute to the profound impact of one father's love and the indomitable human spirit.

Embrace the artistry of imperfection as Kenji Lee takes us through his creative odyssey in "100 Bad Videos." Together, we examine how the Japanese philosophy of accepting flaws can liberate artists from the shackles of traditional perfection. Kenji's personal tales resonate with the essence of authenticity, as he shares the importance of consistent output and the process of creation, rather than focusing solely on the end product. This episode isn't just about making content; it's about the courage to share one's imperfect work with the world, and the authenticity and perseverance that define a true creative path.Ever considered the intimate power of podcasting? It's a medium that not only entertains but also heals, connects, and preserves our most treasured conversations for posterity. We delve into personal stories reflecting the therapeutic nature of this platform, how it supports us in life's ups and downs, and fosters deep connections. From the evolution of wedding videography to the technical nuances that bring stories to life, our discussion traverses the emotional and intellectual journey of a content creator. And for those who find podcasting daunting, we unpack the challenges and celebrate the growth that comes with learning and mastering the art of podcasting.To cap off, we navigate the digital era's balancing act between creating and consuming content. We explore strategies for testing content on Instagram before launching into the YouTube universe, the authenticity behind the scenes, and the infectious 'aloha spirit' we infuse into our work. Kenji and I also discuss the significance of content creation blueprints, not as rigid templates, but as empowering guides that catalyze the creative process across communities. Join us in embracing a mindset of contribution over consumption, and discover how every individual's perception can uniquely shape the art of videography and beyond.

Join us as the illustrious Augie T takes us on a journey from laughter-filled stages to the heart of community action. Whether he's rallying neighborhoods in Ewa and Waipahu or tickling our funny bones, Augie's dual passions for comedy and civic responsibility shine through. Our discussion paints a vivid picture of the transformative power of community engagement, the triumphs of local advocacy, and the importance of education in understanding the roles of various government levels in our lives.In this episode, we lace up our boots for a deep dive into the world of community clean-ups and the ripple effect of pride on the places we call home. Augie's stories of grassroots movements and the mobilization of volunteers resonate with the values of care and responsibility instilled early on in my own life. We reveal the nuts and bolts of cultivating vibrant neighborhoods through continuous, small acts and highlight how these efforts can reflect the broader issue of government support and infrastructure maintenance.As the curtain falls on our chat, Augie T brings us back to the laughter, sharing the wisdom gained from a 35-year tenure in the world of comedy. We explore the evolution of humor, the impact of cultural roots on comedic material, and the unique connection formed with audiences through the art of comedy. So, buckle up for a ride through the laughter, leadership, and the lasting impact of community service, with a side of pidgin language and a peek at a one-of-a-kind Japanese truck.

Embrace the heartwarming complexities of being a 'girl dad' with myself, Thaddeus, and my special guest, Russell Kimura, as we share our personal experiences and celebrate the father-daughter bond. Prepare to be moved by tales of daddy daughter experiences, father-daughter proms, and the poignant growth milestones that punctuate this unique journey. Our candid dialogue unfolds the art of connection, as we tackle the delicate dance of guiding our daughters through the nuanced stages of life, from the whimsy of Disneyland adventures to the introspective depths of daddy-daughter journals.Navigating the stereotypes of teenage angst, we venture into the misunderstood territory that fathers and their adolescent daughters often traverse, sharing strategies for maintaining open lines of communication. Our exchange reveals the transformative power behind a father's sincere apology and the courage to break free from generational cycles of reactive parenting. As we reflect on the bittersweet nature of watching our daughters blossom into independence, I recount an unforgettable heart-to-heart at the 'happiest place on earth' and the graceful balance between guiding and letting go.As we gear up for the enchanting father-daughter prom, a celebration that has evolved from a virtual affair to an anticipated gala, feel the palpable excitement that this event brings. It's more than just a night of dancing—it's a symbol of the lasting impressions fathers can leave and the standard of respect daughters deserve. And as we touch on the foundational role of faith within the family, the upcoming prom stands as a testament to the profound and subtle influence it holds. Join us in this episode for a journey through the joys and revelations of fatherhood, all in the company of an uplifting community of fellow dads who cherish every step of the path with their daughters.