#054: Mental Health Is Not Shameful - with Jordan from Listen, Lucy

Too Old For This Sh*t

08-03-2021 • 1 hora 14 min

On the cusp of the pandemic, Jordan - Founder of Listen Lucy, had just invested for her business to scale from speaking engagements into a speaking agency but 2020 decided otherwise and with events coming to a halt, her business collapsed.

Today we talk about how we both sank on the 2020 boat and what helped us bounce back. Both with very different surroundings and support systems.

*Content note: this episode discusses anxiety and suicide prevention, discretion is advised*

We go over:

• How to deal with a crisis.

• When your livelihood is taken away from you, how to cope so you can move on to your next chapter?

• In order to be the best parent for your kids, you sometimes need to prioritise yourself.

• To quote Jordan: “That’s the thing with mental illness. As your life changes, so does the illness, and you have to adapt.” If a coping mechanism doesn't work anymore, drop it and replace it with something else, don’t stunt your process.

• When you’re feeling depressed or anxious, how do we convey how we’re feeling without freaking people out or making them feel powerless?

• When mental health issues are part of who we are, we shouldn’t apologise for that.

• We all have mental health.

• When pulling away from your partner because you’re ashamed of showing them your mental health, that can be a breach of trust.

• Why spreading the message and exposing herself like this, is so important for Jordan.

• The 5 warning signs your friend may not be doing well and needs you to check in [WHAP which stands for Withdrawal - Hopelessness - Agitation - Poor self care &/or Personality change].

• The Upper limit problem.

Find Jordan: www.ListenLucy.org

Find me: https://linktr.ee/toooldforthisshit or www.angie-s.com

For mental health crisis helplines:

UK:

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/crisis-services/helplines-listening-services/

Europe:

https://www.mhe-sme.org/library/helplines/

USA:

National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1-800-273- 8255

Crisis Textline - Text HOME to 741741

Book referenced: The Big Leap